How To Be Attractive. Part 1.
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I decided to write articles about attractiveness. You know why? Because I want to see more attractive people around me, ha-ha. I think that we can develop any qualities we want. Some of them will make us more attractive, some of them will make us less pleasant.
A lot of people care about their look or social status. I personally like to look pretty, and if I don't, I get super upset. But even if you are very beautiful, you will get attention for some period of time, but it will be more like a short term solution. If you want something long-lasting, you need to work on stuff inside of your.
Right now I have a weird hair color, and in general my hair doesn't look good. But I know one magic quality which can make everyone attractive and it doesn't matter how you look. This quality is kindness!
If you are kind to people, if you have good energy, they would want to be around you, would want to come back to you. And they will remember good things about you.
Some people are lucky to be born kind. I met people like that and they are amazing! But even if you feel like by nature you are more like mean person, you still can develop the skill of kindness within yourself. It is just the decision that you make. And I think it is a beautiful decision - to become more kind!
Kindness doesn't mean to say "yes" to everyone and everything. Sometimes, when we say "no" it can be an act of kindness too. Kindness means understanding and doing the right thing for you and people around you. It means that you are trying to choose the right words which will not hurt other person. And sometimes in order to do that we need to pause. It will help you to act in a kind way even if you are not in a pleasant situation.
If you don't put efforts to learn how to be kind, you most likely will end up with mean people. We attract what we are. Like people who like drama stick to each other, the same way mean people get attached. So if you want to be around kind people, you need to develop this quality within yourself.
If you want to be kind to others, you need to start with being kind to yourself. Self-care is very important. It is very hard to be nice, when you cannot take care of yourself.
I hope I was able to convince you that kindness is very important. Please work on this skill! The world would be such a beautiful place if we all try to be more kind!
Next Sunday I will make a new post about another quality that can make you attractive. Stay tuned!
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