How To Be Attractive. Part 3.

Hello my dear readers!

Today I want to continue my series about attractiveness. In my previous posts I mentioned kindness and honesty as the most important qualities for attractiveness. And today I want to talk about another characteristic which can make you more interesting. I am not sure what word describes it better, and I apologize for that. But I will try my best to be clear.

Here is the link to my YouTube video - How To Be Attractive. Part 3.

So what am I going to talk about in my part 3? I want to talk about self-developmet! I noticed that people who have hobbies, interests, who spend time to learn new things are very interesting. If you only do the same stuff over and over again, if you don't learn anything new, you won't stay at the same level, you would regress. I met some very attractive people in my life, but everything came so easily to them, they didn't have to put efforts and at some point they just regressed and suffered. And it was very sad to see these talents losing their way. We all have potential that we need to use.

Focus on your self-development is very important. A lot of times instead of working on ourselves we are just chasing pleasures. We become exhausted, stressed and as a result scared and mean. And when someone is not nice, it is very hard to be with this person. On other hand, if you are constantly working on yourself, if you learn something new, if you are busy, you become very independent. You build your self-esteem, you are not needy, you believe in yourself.

Imagine a person, who has his vision, his goals, who doesn't give up and keep working on himself, and a person who just wants to have fun and chasing pleasures with no progression. What type of person would you like to be with? And what person do you want to be by yourself?

In short-term pleasures are great! But it all gets old, it can't be sustainable. If you want long-term relationships, if you want to be attractive not just for a moment, but for a lifetime, you need to work on your self-development and be fresh and new everyday!

I must say that sometimes I am lazy and I don't want to do anything. I just want to watch my favorite show and eat. It is hard to force yourself to do something. But it is much harder to live your life in regressive mode. If you don't work on yourself, later in life you will have to pay for your laziness. And the price will be extremely high - your own life. But if you train your brain, if you become smarter and stronger, you will be attractive no matter how old you are.

So if you are thinking about long-term attractiveness, you must think of how much time and efforts you put on your self-development!

Be Strong And Love Yourself!

From Dasha With Love!

Love Wins!